Comments on The Less Than Domestic Goddess: Body Image Amidst TTC and Chronic Illness

We love you Carly. And I'm praying for you tha...

2011-12-13T12:47:51.364-08:00

We love you Carly. And I'm praying for you that your life starts getting easier, happier, and more fulfilled. You're a great person and you totally deserve it

My worst, most annoying issue is facial hair. It&#...

2011-12-09T14:20:41.636-08:00

My worst, most annoying issue is facial hair. It's a symptom of PCOS that I THOUGHT I was done with when I had an ovary removed, but it's very true what they say about PCOS. It's systemic. Once it's there, it's there (unless you're one of the few who manage to get pregnant, as that can act as a hormonal "reset" button). I've often described PCOS as the most de-womanizing illness. (Not only can you not get pregnant with the "normal" ease, but you can't lose weight, can gain it by looking at something bad for you or eating too much salad, have acne despite your age and skin routine, and hair in places most women think it shouldn't be.) Ideally, I need to get my chin waxed twice a month, but I can't afford it (and doing it myself isn't as effective), so I end up trimming it, living with it, and going once a month. I HATE it!
But I learned that as long as I don't call attention to my flaws, most people overlook them. I remember that I do not walk into a room with a big "DEFECTIVE" sign over my head. I remind myself that my husband and I will probably get a lot of unwanted physical stuff happening over the years, so this isn't that big of a deal, and I move on. (A little make up doesn't hurt either.)
I have to agree with all your advice! Positive self-talk is a HUGE help! Good blog chika!

i love reading your blog for it's authenticity...

2011-12-09T13:48:48.837-08:00

i love reading your blog for it's authenticity and honesty. do take care of yourself!! i'm going through my 2nd miscarriage... traumatizing but at least i am still alive. :/ i'm currently going through the "what is wrong with me phase?" but i'm hoping i will pull through and see my other options. i might try acupuncture/herbal medicine. have you ever tried that? **big hugs~!**

While I can't imagine your struggle, I have to...

2011-12-09T11:01:16.180-08:00

While I can't imagine your struggle, I have to applaud you for your honesty and determination. I wish there was an answer to your questions of why but i think that as you continue to approach your issues the way you are, you will find comfort in knowing you are taking care of you the best way possible!

I went on my first diet when I was 11 years old. ...

2011-12-09T08:36:53.334-08:00

I went on my first diet when I was 11 years old. Then the summer after 7th grade, I went through puberty and entered 8th grade a giant, bloated cow while all my friends were still skinny little sticks. That, I think, is what started my obsession with body image. I suffered through eating disorders but in the end, after a decade, I realized that I am who I am and people can either accept it or now. The important thing is that *I* accepted it.

I'm always thinking about you!